the bf doesnt like............?

Karl Samiec: hmmm good one. well my thoughts are that maybe you should address one last time. if it's affecting your relationship to the point that you aren't happy or you feel that that's what you need to be happy in a relationship, which it obviously is bothering you......leave him alone. whether you have been together for 1 year or 20 years, you either deal with it or you don't. if he don't want to change it, you change it. and you know what i mean. the thing is, most men will wiggle out of their comfort zones when they are truly in love. it's just the happiness that comes with the territory. of course men and women are wired differently but when love comes into the equation, it's all relative. he will show it, especially through body language.or it could be that he really just don't like PDA. well, hey like i said, deal or don't deal. it's that simple....Show more

Newton Fedorko: ok, became very almost to declare something like "under your mom's roof you're able! to do as she says" yet then I study which you're 21! She is particularly controlling, perhaps she's worried which you will pass off with this boy and ignore her or in keeping with danger she has a reason that she's no longer telling you. At 21 make your guy or woman selection and do what's precise for you, yet don't be blinded by applying love the two.

Manual Burtis: Some guys don't like it...they like to keep even little things private. But if it bothers you that much just tell him that a little PDA is okay and that you would be happier if you guys did hold hands in public once and a while :) The fact that he still does touch you and shows some sort of affection in public is great, and means that he's still into you! It's all good; he just sounds like a private guy.